Dating can be complicated and as women we at times blame ourselves for the result of a bad ending relationship. We begin to have lack of self-confidence and try harder to appease a man that doesn’t value us. Not every woman has confidence from birth, I have experienced insecurities during my path towards becoming women, such as the insecurity that comes from feelings of rejection from the men I dated because I have a child or because I believed I was not appealing enough or not being able to fill the shoes of the type of woman they needed.
I once dated a man that stated, “I can’t settle down with a woman who has children.” I felt hurt and lost confidence in the great woman I am all because a man won’t settle down with me because I have a child. I felt I had a lot to offer and most importantly I was drama free. I have grown to realize I’m a great woman. Having a child is a blessing, and if a man loves you he will learn to love you and your children. If a man doesn’t want me because of my child, he doesn’t deserve me. The man that doesn’t stick around you because of a reason like this one doesn’t deserve YOU! And, we should never blame ourselves. Also, remain confident that the right man will come around. Over the years, I grew to understand my worth and also to learn to be confident by loving myself first.
As you evolve in becoming “Thee Woman”, you will understand why reflecting about past issues will help you; everything that happened in the past was a learning experience. Keep in mind that past experiences help to design your character for the future. A woman of confidence can admit to her flaws and appreciate her strengths. She understands she is not perfect but knows her worth. Thee woman, understands when she makes mistakes. She is comfortable with her attributes, her personality, and her progress. A woman with confidence recognizes her character and does not fall susceptible to relying on someone else to validate her stature. She is goal-oriented and encourages her family and friends. She exudes confidence because she has evolved to a place of true contentment about who she has become. Be confident don’t waste days wishing something you’re not. A man once told me “confidence is the sexiest thing on a woman” Below you read a list of words that inspire thee woman with Confidence.
- §Courageous: She puts forth the extra effort towards her goals despite her fears.
- §Original: She is unique, like no other, not a copy or an imitation.
- §Natural: She embraces her beauty, character, and personality.
- §Fierce: She is secure by expressing her passions and knows what she wants.
- §In Control: She has control of her health, the direction she is taking, and of herself.
- §Determined: She does not accept the word “No” and goes after what she wants.
- §Empowering: She inspires others by providing guidance and maintaining a positive outlook.
- §Nurturing: She is caring, and encouraging to others.
- §Creative: She has the ability to improvise as a mother, as a professional, and within herself.
- §Elegant: She carries herself with poise, presence, and good manners.